The normal text read, plainly, "If I'm online, I am accepting messages," while the femmephobic texts read, "I am NOT into men that look, sound or act like females.
"Queer men are not immune to this, and actually, they probably feel it more strongly." Scientists have proposed a host of neurobiological reasons for infidelity—but could there be a more esoteric explanation?
We turned to the star of TLC's "The Psychic Matchmaker" for some answers.
American postcards from the 20th century showed "fairies" with limp wrists, doing "women's work" as store clerks.
These effeminate men were distinguished from the "trade" men, or heteros who occasionally accepted sex with a gay.
Very big doses can render men permanently sterile, but the occasional X-ray, experts say, isn't enough to put your little swimmers down for the count. Some stroke victims wind up with different accents, others with different personalities.
Chris Birch said he discovered he was gay when he woke up after a stroke.
But you can show that you are out and proud in your own way.
Like most of these tips suggest, the best way to find a date is to be active in the LGBTA community.
Gay men who are constantly preoccupied with presenting as masculine tend to have lower self-esteem and suffer from internalized homophobia, according to one study.